- Category
- Confidence & Self-Love Spells
- Level
- Beginner
What you'll need
A mirror, a pink or white candle, rose quartz if you have it.
Read about the ingredients:
Words to speak
“I'm looking at someone worth being kind to. Whatever I'd say to someone I love, I can say to this person too.”
Say them as written, or put them in your own words — sincerity matters more than exact phrasing.
How to do it
Light the candle near the mirror. Look at your own reflection and say the words, then name one specific, true thing you appreciate about yourself out loud — not a generic compliment, something real. Repeat this on hard weeks as often as it's useful; it tends to feel awkward before it feels natural, and that's normal.
Safety
- Never leave a candle or flame unattended. Burn paper only in a fireproof dish, away from curtains, pets and children.
- Spells support real-world action; they don't replace medical, legal, financial or safety help.
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